Why I Date Short Men

18 Jul

I am pretty tall for a Louisiana girl. I am 5’7″ tall and most women in Southern Louisiana, I noticed, are between 5 foot to 5 foot 5 inches tall. Most men are around 5 foot 6 to 6 foot. There are exceptions, of course. There are also very tall people here but I have not met many…I am almost 5 foot 8 inches tall and most men I have dated were either an inch or two shorter, an inch or two taller, or the same height. I enjoy being tall. I used to HATE it though. When I was 11,  I was about 5’5″, towering above all the guys and girls at school. I didnt like standing out and being made fun of for being a tall bean pole. Now I have filled out and am 5’7″ almost 5’8″ and I love it. I love wearing heels and platforms so I can tower over the short people.

Why do I like short men? I guess its a psychological thing. I have tried to date very tall men but feel very odd around them. Sure, it may sound superficial but in a way I think short men compensate more for not being tall by being nicer, a better listener, more humorous, and less egotistical and male chauvanistic. Men who are tall, in my opinion, have more presence when they walk into a room, get hit on much more often than shorter men, have bigger egos, and are more intimidating to some people. I prefer shorter men who are my height or an inch taller or an inch shorter. I am a very opinionated, strong, aggressive, athletic, and “I can do anything better than you!” type of woman. Therefore, I dont like feeling shrimpy and petite next to a man, nor do I like to feel weak and small when Im dating someone. I just prefer dating shorter men because I feel at ease when I can look someone in the eye standing next to them, I see shorter men as more agile and athletic somehow because tall, lanky men seem to have to defy gravity. And I also was hurt and abused by some men and I dont like feeling like a man is so tall and big compared to me, that I feel as if I am the weak one and I have to listen to him or else.

It may seem very stange but thats how I feel. I am also like one of the guys with my male friends and I am very feminine but still, in many ways I am a tom boy and I prefer to feel “strong and beautiful” rather than “cute and beautiful” or “dainty and beautiful”. I am also single and I usually am attracted to men that I can hang out with, do activities with, work out with, and go to shooting ranges with…rather than dinner and a movie…or take me shopping for pink rufflly dresses and jewelry…ha ha. Just thought about this today and decided to write about it and hope you enjoyed it. No offense intended…just personal experience and opinion.

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Why You Should Be a Vegetarian

6 Jun

Why You Should Consider Adopting a Vegetarian Diet

Cruelty to Animals

More than 27 billion animals are killed for food every year in the U.S. alone. Animals in factory farms have no legal protection from cruelty that would be illegal if it were inflicted on dogs or cats, including neglect, mutilations, genetic manipulation, drug regimens that cause chronic pain and crippling, transport through all weather extremes, and gruesome and violent slaughter. 

 

Amazing Animals

Farmed animals are no less intelligent or capable of feeling pain than are the dogs and cats we cherish as our companions. They are inquisitive, interesting individuals who value their lives, solve problems, experience fear and pain, and are capable of using tools. According to animal-behavior scientists, chickens begin learning from their mothers while they are still in their shells, pigs can play video games better than some primates can, and fish form social bonds and can remember things that they have learned for the human equivalent of 40 years.

 

Your Health

Vegetarian foods provide us with all the nutrients that we need, minus the saturated fat, cholesterol, and contaminants that are found in meat, eggs, and dairy products. Plant-based diets protect us against heart disease, diabetes, obesity, strokes, and several types of cancer. Vegetarians also have stronger immune systems and, on average, live 10 years longer than meat-eaters do.

 

The Environment

America’s meat addiction is poisoning and depleting our potable water, arable land, and clean air. More than half the water used in the United States goes to animal agriculture, and since farmed animals produce 130 times more excrement than the human population does, the run-off from their waste greatly pollutes our waterways.

 

World Hunger

Raising animals for food is extremely inefficient—for every pound of food that they eat, only a fraction of the calories are returned in the form of edible flesh. If we stopped intensively breeding farmed animals and grew crops to feed humans instead, we would easily be able to feed every human on the planet with healthy and affordable vegetarian foods. 

 

Worker Rights

Human Rights Watch has declared that slaughterhouse workers have “the most dangerous factory job in America.” The industry has refused to do what’s necessary to create safe working conditions for its employees, such as slowing down slaughter lines and supplying workers with appropriate safety gear, because these changes could cut into companies’ bottom lines.

 

Factory Farms: Poisoning Communities

Factory farms pollute the air and water for many miles in every direction, often spreading contamination and illness to the people who live and work nearby. Chronic sickness, brain damage, poisoned waterways, elevated cancer rates, and even death plague these communities, while the government does nothing to protect citizens or regulate the industry.

Government Negligence

Between 2000 and 2005, agribusinesses funneled more than $140 million to politicians, who more than earned their money by helping to ensure that laws that might protect consumers, animals, and the environment did not pass. The unfortunate truth is that the federal government does very little to protect human health, animal welfare, and our environment from the factory-farming industry’s negligence and excess.

 

 

Corporate Campaigns

Since October 1999, when we launched our “McCruelty” campaign against Fortune 500 company and fast-food-giant McDonald’s, PETA has waged a series of successful campaigns urging the restaurant and grocery industries to improve conditions for the animals killed for their menus and shelves.

 

 

credit: taken from www.GOVEG.com

By the way, I have lost 10 pounds in 2 weeks being a vegetarian and feel a lot better, lighter, more energy, and healthier. There are so many good wholesome foods you can eat that taste great. Some of my faves are Morning Star Farms Chik’n nuggets made from soy, and veggie burgers from Morning Star Farms. You can get these at your local grocery. Soy milk is also vry tastey, comes in many flavors, and a better choice than cows milk. I reccommend for your diet reading the book, “Skinny Bitch” which is a book about total diet and lifestyle transformation and involves not eating meat or dairy or eggs but you also become thinner while being cruelty free and healthy!

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Fur, Leather, And Wool: The Truth

6 Jun

Wearing fur, leather, and wool promotes very extreme cruelty to animals. Is it really worth it? Watch this video and see the pain, torture, and inhumane treatment that goes on to make leather belts, fur jackets, and wool sweaters. I have stopped wearing these products because there are so many other fashionable clothes and accessories I can wear that do not promote this cruelty. These people must not have a heart or soul if they do this to these innocent, loving, fearful creatures. How would you like to be skinned alive?

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Outrageous Surgery Performed On Women

23 May

Genital Mutilation is wrong, immoral, against women’s rights, harms women, and is evil to me. This should be stopped. People in other countries have it a lot worse than us for the most part, especially Africa. So please be glad to be an independent strong woman with freedom.
Female genital mutilation

Key facts

 

  • Female genital mutilation (FGM) includes procedures that intentionally alter or injure female genital organs for non-medical reasons.
  • The procedure has no health benefits for girls and women.
  • Procedures can cause severe bleeding and problems urinating, and later, potential childbirth complications and newborn deaths.
  • An estimated 100 to 140 million girls and women worldwide are currently living with the consequences of FGM.
  • It is mostly carried out on young girls sometime between infancy and age 15 years.
  • In Africa an estimated 92 million girls from 10 years of age and above have undergone FGM.
  • FGM is internationally recognized as a violation of the human rights of girls and women.

 

Female genital mutilation (FGM) comprises all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.

The practice is mostly carried out by traditional circumcisers, who often play other central roles in communities, such as attending childbirths. Increasingly, however, FGM is being performed by health care providers.

FGM is recognized internationally as a violation of the human rights of girls and women. It reflects deep-rooted inequality between the sexes, and constitutes an extreme form of discrimination against women. It is nearly always carried out on minors and is a violation of the rights of children. The practice also violates a person’s rights to health, security and physical integrity, the right to be free from torture and cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment, and the right to life when the procedure results in death.

Procedures

 

Female genital mutilation is classified into four major types.

  • Clitoridectomy: partial or total removal of the clitoris (a small, sensitive and erectile part of the female genitals) and, in very rare cases, only the prepuce (the fold of skin surrounding the clitoris).
  • Excision: partial or total removal of the clitoris and the labia minora, with or without excision of the labia majora (the labia are “the lips” that surround the vagina).
  • Infibulation: narrowing of the vaginal opening through the creation of a covering seal. The seal is formed by cutting and repositioning the inner, or outer, labia, with or without removal of the clitoris.
  • Other: all other harmful procedures to the female genitalia for non-medical purposes, e.g. pricking, piercing, incising, scraping and cauterizing the genital area.

 

No health benefits, only harm

 

FGM has no health benefits, and it harms girls and women in many ways. It involves removing and damaging healthy and normal female genital tissue, and interferes with the natural functions of girls’ and women’s bodies.

Immediate complications can include severe pain, shock, haemorrhage (bleeding), tetanus or sepsis (bacterial infection), urine retention, open sores in the genital region and injury to nearby genital tissue.

Long-term consequences can include:

  • recurrent bladder and urinary tract infections;
  • cysts;
  • infertility;
  • an increased risk of childbirth complications and newborn deaths;
  • the need for later surgeries. For example, the FGM procedure that seals or narrows a vaginal opening (type 3 above) needs to be cut open later to allow for sexual intercourse and childbirth. Sometimes it is stitched again several times, including after childbirth, hence the woman goes through repeated opening and closing procedures, further increasing and repeated both immediate and long-term risks.

 

Who is at risk?

 

Procedures are mostly carried out on young girls sometime between infancy and age 15, and occasionally on adult women. In Africa, about three million girls are at risk for FGM annually.

Between 100 to 140 million girls and women worldwide are living with the consequences of FGM. In Africa, about 92 million girls age 10 years and above are estimated to have undergone FGM.

The practice is most common in the western, eastern, and north-eastern regions of Africa, in some countries in Asia and the Middle East, and among certain immigrant communities in North America and Europe.

Cultural, religious and social causes

 

The causes of female genital mutilation include a mix of cultural, religious and social factors within families and communities.

  • Where FGM is a social convention, the social pressure to conform to what others do and have been doing is a strong motivation to perpetuate the practice.
  • FGM is often considered a necessary part of raising a girl properly, and a way to prepare her for adulthood and marriage.
  • FGM is often motivated by beliefs about what is considered proper sexual behaviour, linking procedures to premarital virginity and marital fidelity. FGM is in many communities believed to reduce a woman’s libido, and thereby is further believed to help her resist “illicit” sexual acts. When a vaginal opening is covered or narrowed (type 3 above), the fear of pain of opening it, and the fear that this will be found out, is expected to further discourage “illicit” sexual intercourse among women with this type of FGM.
  • FGM is associated with cultural ideals of femininity and modesty, which include the notion that girls are “clean” and “beautiful” after removal of body parts that are considered “male” or “unclean”.
  • Though no religious scripts prescribe the practice, practitioners often believe the practice has religious support.
  • Religious leaders take varying positions with regard to FGM: some promote it, some consider it irrelevant to religion, and others contribute to its elimination.
  • Local structures of power and authority, such as community leaders, religious leaders, circumcisers, and even some medical personnel can contribute to upholding the practice.
  • In most societies, FGM is considered a cultural tradition, which is often used as an argument for its continuation.
  • In some societies, recent adoption of the practice is linked to copying the traditions of neighbouring groups. Sometimes it has started as part of a wider religious or traditional revival movement.
  • In some societies, FGM is being practised by new groups when they move into areas where the local population practice FGM.

 

International response

 

In 1997, the World Health Organization (WHO) issued a joint statement with the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) and the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) against the practice of FGM. A new statement, with wider United Nations support, was then issued in February 2008 to support increased advocacy for the abandonment of FGM.

The 2008 statement documents new evidence collected over the past decade about the practice. It highlights the increased recognition of the human rights and legal dimensions of the problem and provides current data on the frequency and scope of FGM. It also summarizes research about why FGM continues, how to stop it, and its damaging effects on the health of women, girls and newborn babies.

Since 1997, great efforts have been made to counteract FGM, through research, work within communities, and changes in public policy. Progress at both international and local levels includes:

  • wider international involvement to stop FGM;
  • the development of international monitoring bodies and resolutions that condemn the practice;
  • revised legal frameworks and growing political support to end FGM; and
  • in some countries, decreasing practice of FGM, and an increasing number of women and men in practising communities who declare their support to end it.

 

Research shows that, if practising communities themselves decide to abandon FGM, the practice can be eliminated very rapidly.

WHO response

 

In 2008, the World Health Assembly passed a resolution (WHA61.16) on the elimination of FGM, emphasizing the need for concerted action in all sectors – health, education, finance, justice and women’s affairs.

WHO efforts to eliminate female genital mutilation focus on:

  • advocacy: developing publications and advocacy tools for international, regional and local efforts to end FGM within a generation;
  • research: generating knowledge about the causes and consequences of the practice, how to eliminate it, and how to care for those who have experienced FGM;
  • guidance for health systems: developing training materials and guidelines for health professionals to help them treat and counsel women who have undergone procedures.

 

WHO is particularly concerned about the increasing trend for medically trained personnel to perform FGM. WHO strongly urges health professionals not to perform such procedures.

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Feminism Definitions

22 May

Definitions Of Feminism
Linda Chapman

“Feminism – I myself have never known what feminism is. I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat.” -Rebecca West, 1913

“Feminism–the belief that women are full human beings capable of participation and leadership in the full range of human activities–intellectual political, social, sexual, spiritual, and economic.” -Pearl Cleage, Deals with the devil, p.28. (New York: Ballantine Books, 1993.)

“Feminism is the political theory and practice that struggles to free _all_ women: women of color, working-class women, poor women, disabled women, lesbians, old women–as well as white, economically privileged, heterosexual women. Anything less than this vision of total freedom is not feminism, but merely female self-aggrandizement.” -Barbara Smith (reprinted in Gloria Anzaldua’s Making Face, Making Soul, 25.)

“Feminism is an assertion that women as a group have been historically disadvantaged relative to men of their race, class, ethnicity, or sexual identity; and a commitment to changing the structures that systemically privilege men over women.” Journal of Women’s History

“I define a feminist as a self-empowering woman who wishes the same for her sisters. I do not think the term implies a certain sexual orientation, a certain style of dress, or membership in a certain political party. A feminist is merely a woman who refuses to accept the notion that women’s power must come through men.” — Erica Jong, Fear of Fifty, p.286

“I define feminist consciousness as the awareness of women that they belong to a subordinate group; that they have suffered wrongs as a group; that their condition of subordination is not natural, but is societally determined; they they must join with other women to remedy these wrongs; and finally, that they must and can provide an alternate vision of societal organization in which women as well as men will enjoy autonomy and self-determination.” — Gerda Lerner, The Creation of Feminist Consciousness, p. 14

This material was taken from: http://helpokc.com/feminism.php

Jewelry Design

22 May

Please visit my handmade jewelry webstore at www.vendio.com/stores/beauxtresors1. Jewelry-making is fun, relaxing, and rewarding and pretty easy for most designs. Its a good hobby and also can make a good profit. Let me know what you think of my webstore for Beaux Tresors Handmade Jewelry and Accessories. Feel free to share your jewelry website link with me!

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Blanco Signs Public Smoking Ban in Louisiana

22 May

As a smoker, I think this is both good and bad. I don’t want to suscept children and non-smokers to second hand smoke but I also would like to be free to smoke if I want to at a bar or outside. I personally think this is interfering with some people’s lifestyles. I smoke because I am a nervous person and I have anxiety. Smoking is awful but I want to be able to make the choice if I want to smoke or not. Most smokers smoke outside or in their cars or homes so I think this is going to far against people’s rights and lifestyles. It is hard to quit smoking and its not like smokers try to smoke right next to someone to give them second hand smoke. If someone doesn’t like smoking, they should go somewhere else. People like to smoke in bars so I am glad that they will allow certain bars not attached to a restaurant to allow people to smoke. I want to quit smoking but I want to do it when I am ready to. Not be forced to by a law.

 

 

Blanco signs public smoking ban

Stand-alone bars, casinos to be exempt from law
Saturday, July 01, 2006
By Ed Anderson
Capital bureau

BATON ROUGE — Gov. Kathleen Blanco signed into law Friday a statewide ban on smoking in restaurants and other public places, a measure one restaurant industry official said may be challenged in court.

Without fanfare, Blanco signed Senate Bill 742 by Sen. Rob Marionneaux, D-Livonia, outlawing smoking in most public buildings — but not gambling outlets and free-standing bars. The new law bans smoking in bars attached to restaurants, a major source of opposition to the bill during its journey through the Legislature. It takes effect Jan. 1.

In a prepared statement, Blanco said she signed the bill “as a progressive health care measure that will protect people, especially children, from second-hand smoke in public places. It is time that we focus on keeping our citizens and children healthy and encourage wellness.”

Blanco had pledged to sign the bill as it made its way through the legislature. But then she held a conference call earlier this week with Rep. Cedric Richmond, D-New Orleans, chairman of the Legislative Black Caucus, New Orleans restaurant operators and officials of the Louisiana Restaurant Association to hear last-minute arguments against the measure.

“We kind of expected her to sign it,” restaurant association spokesman Tom Weatherly said. “She listened to us but it sounded as though her mind was made up since she had made the public statement” about supporting Marionneaux’s bill. Richmond said Thursday that he expected Blanco to sign it.

Weatherly said some restaurant owners have indicated they want to fight the ban in court but no decision has been made. The association’s board meets Aug. 6 and the topic of a possible court fight may come up then, he said.

Marionneaux said the industry should drop its opposition because studies in other states have shown that business increased after smoking was banned in restaurants….

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